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For women who know better — and still abandon themselves, especially in relationships.

where self betrayal comes to die.

initiating

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this is identity work

& not for the faint hearted.

yes, You've done the work before.

The therapy. The journaling. The coaching & workshops or women circles. yet you return to the same Contracts that bind & blind you to:

the nice girl complex & self sabotage TENDENCIES.

the very thing that quietly roBs you From EVER TRULY KNOWING YOUR WORTH AS A WOMAN.

yet You are still searching for permission, validation & authority outside yourself, LETTING IT dictate:

  • What you’re allowed to want

  • What you’re allowed to say

  • What you’re allowed to expect

  • What you’re allowed to believe

the truth is You have been living under invisible contracts.

you wonder; Why you feel anxious in love.


Why you attract men who almost choose you or barely choose you.


Why you oscillate between insecurity & delusional confidence.

yet only because ;

You are living under outdated permission systems & self abandoning authority.

& frankly it’s running your entire (love) life…

not in the sexy dom kind of way.

Yes, darling You are a hot mess.

enjoy the evidence of my dharma💋

the psyche shift

Before

Your identity is shaped around being (emotionally) INTELLIGENT, yet also acceptable in relationship.

You edit your truth to maintain belonging or connection.

You are understood, But not chosen.

easily a care giver, without BOUNDARIES THEREFORE internally shrinking & sensually WEATHERING away.

You know the language of healing.
But continue to betray yourself when it really matters.

you ritualize self love but cant set a boundary that reflects self trust.

After

You belong to yourself first & no one f*cks with your time or energy.

you no longer negotiate your truth for external harmony.

You choose yourself regardless of being understood

confidence & integrity forms around your BEHAVIOR.

you keep the promises you make yourself.

you utilize your authentic values to get what you want.

Your somatically connected to your expression & are DECISIVE as f*ck.

comand the room when you walk in & leave feeling deeply turned on by your EXISTENCE.

    • Have done 1–3 years of therapy or other deep work

    • Know at least some somatic and nervous system practices

    • Can self-regulate while being challenged

    • Are spiritually aware, open to the unknown

    • Are ready to stop asking for permission to exist fully in love

    This is for women who are tired of:

    • Being emotionally mature but relationally small/disconnected

    • Feeling powerful everywhere except in intimacy (with themselves & others)

    • Living inside rules they never consciously agreed to

    • Want a quick fix

    • Have barely scratched the surface of their inner world

    • Want a step by step script to the known

    • Want relationship tactics

    • Want someone to fix their life, work or partner

    • Are unwilling to risk or do the deep work

    • Are still negotiating whether their truth matters

    PSA:

    This is a recalibration of identity.

who is this for?

Since this is clearly not for every woman, I need you to DISCERN for yourself if this is even for you…

enjoy more evidence of my dharma💋

Most practitioners teach:

  • What to say

  • How to communicate

  • How to regulate

  • How to behave differently

They assume the self is already authorized.

I work with the internal authority instead of your symptoms. Why?

because lets be honest you’ve tried to soothe, heal or SUPPRESS those in countless ways already.

what i do is subconscious permission work. methodical & Precise.

aka I unf*ck you from your hidden contract & patterns so you can finally EXPERIENCE the freedom of being an integral woman.

I work one layer below it all.

here’S what women have said about my work…

trust me and the women below— my spaces are where real bone deep embodiment & psyche CHANGES take place.

cleint love in written

about

my name is sara lynn marie.

it started long before i had words to describe what i knew or saw.

from my hands — giving massages. to somatic processing with clients. to teaching groups on self love matters. to past life regression sessions. to crisis aversion in brand & business. to consulting shamans. i saw their pain.

so i studied. i devoted. i stood witness. i stayed. did 12+ years of therapy across every modality i could find. i practiced with mentors. i went into madness itself ; actual madness & brought myself back…

all so i could unearth what was within me. So i could do what God asked me to do ; serve.

so now i live & breathe shadow work. it unhinged me. the level of insanity & sanity i've moved through is exactly why i know how to be of service to the UNDEFINABLE : woman.

it is the reason why i can hold what shows up in my spaces with complete COMPETENce.

I have seen it all.

i teach so you don’t have to suffer anymore.

  • 3 months.

    6 months.

    12 months.

    Depending on where you are, where you desire to go & the degree of your devotion.

    every container is built to touch your psyche, your patterns, your specific brand of self-abandonment in the deepest layers.

    there's no template. session frequency, depth of work, pacing — all of it gets shaped to what you actually need, not what looks good ; which is why investment varies per woman.

    here's what you walk away with:

    a woman who lives in her body. who stays with herself in intimacy, in relationships, in the quiet moments where she used to spiral. who carries her own worth so deeply she doesn't even have to think about it — it just emanates from within her. why? because with me you trade affirmations for evidence.

    reach out to discuss application.

  • these are closed recorded programs, available upon request.

    unbridled femininity 7 weeks. every sunday. this was the space where women came to meet the parts of their femininity they'd been performing instead of feeling. the raw, unfiltered, sometimes terrifying truth of what it means to actually be in your integrity as a woman — not the nice girl version of feminine energy but the real one. the one that has teeth.

    vol.i shadow madonna : 3 masterclasses + an integration call. this was the entry point into shadow work for women who knew something was running their lives but couldn't name it yet. we went in. we named it. & then we sat with what came up long enough for it to actually shift.

    Request access.

how to end your sabotaging contracts…